Get moving….. yes I am talking to you. Life is way to short to wait on your dreams! Get moving and make it happen. Just one step a day will put you closer to your dreams everyday. Who knows you might be married next year, having a baby, dancing like Fred Aster, making the next great invention or singing on American Idol. Remember all things are possible to those who believe. Do you believe in you? I do! So get moving!

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Love Your Personal Life!

Me and a friend of mines conversed today and she shared a very common issue that most career professions experience.The issue is the ability to separate your career title and expectations from your everyday living. Many of us become our work and live under its expectations and demands all day and everyday. But you have the right to have a personal life filled with love, joy, peace and whatever else you want to add into it. You can make as many mistakes as you want and decide to clean up when you feel like. Don’t get me wrong I am not trying to tell you to live a life of poor integrity and character or irresponsibility but I am telling you that it is ok to live.

In your personal life, you can create your own standards and live by your own rules and expectations. It may take a little time to figure it out but you have time and in this time you may have bumps, bruises and a little pain along the way but this is just apart of life. Don’t stop living or my favorite become a workaholic to avoid dealing with your special gift of life.

The fact that we can create our own personal lives scares the living daylights out of most of us. We would prefer preexisting standards, plans or rules which leads to a life of perfection. However, this takes the fun out of discovering who we are and what we ultimately want out of life.

Me, personally, I would not change anything about my life outside of how I handled certain situations. I can look back now and know that some things would have been better if I would have just seen the situation through the other person’s point of view or just cooled down before I reacted. However even with this, everyday that I am alive I can do it all over again and so can you.

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Love and Relationships

Relationships are hard sometimes however they are worth fighting for if you and the person truly love one another or if you and your family really love each other and want to move pass previous hurts and pains. Do it all in the name of love! So what is love?

Love is patient and love is kind. Love is humble and self-controlled, looks out for the best interest of others, even-tempered and thinks the best of everyone, lives in truth, bears all things, believe all things, endures all things. Love Never Fails……

This may seem like a tall order but if we really want love we have to become better lovers. Don’t get me wrong if you are with the wrong person or if a family situation is causing you harm please do not try to put a band-aid over a bad situation. However if you find someone worth spending your life with or your family wants to move on loving one another, give them the best you, you got, and watch the love between you grow stronger over time.

Life Advisor Tina

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Gratitude Tuesday- Live in Gratitude

In our busy lives of circumstances and situations, we can easily get lost in solving or brewing over our problems. One minute you are as happy as a lark and the next thing you know the bottom of the world has fallen from underneath your feet. You become angry, confused, bitter and even hostile to the point of being on a verge of a heart attack or stroke. So how do you stay in control of your moods and thoughts in the mist of such chaos? Live in Gratitude. Gratitude, thankfulness, gratefulness, or appreciation is a positive emotion or attitude in acknowledgment of a benefit that one has received or will receive. Therefore you can express gratitude in very simple ways. For instance, when you wake up in the morning start to thank God for the simple things in life such as you are still breathing, there is the sun, the moon and the stars, having a good family, it is a brand new day and you can try life all over again, and so on. Then in the middle of the day to the same thing and before you go to bed do it again. When you create a lifestyle of gratitude nothing can throw you off because you are grounded in gratitude. And as you will see, it will be the positive things in life that keep you stable and loving life every step of the way. Life Advisor Tina

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Revelation Thursday- Two Things About Fear

Fear is like a venomous snake. Once it bits, the venom slowly and methodically kills off the dreams in your heart. So how do we overcome it? It is important to know, that fear feeds from what you don’t know. So whatever your dreams are, you need to get yourself educated on the matter. From fixing credit to how to have successful relationships, you can get great information on-line, at your local bookstore or library, there are tons of experts and mentors willing to help. When you do this simple step, you will dispel the myth behind your fears.

Second, get great support on your side. I am a true believer that people are more successful when they have real support. You can choose relatives, friends, experts, mentors, neighbors or even coworkers. The main point is to make sure they support you with what you are trying to do (if they don’t drop them like a bad habit because their fear will soon be your fear). Your supporters will become your cheerleaders with positive words and great suggestions of how to think outside of your own thoughts. Also they will tell you the truth, encourage you, keep you motivated and focus. Believe me when fear rears its ugly head, your support will be strong enough to combat its venom.

Just following these few steps will help you put fear under your feet and free you to live your dreams. Life Advisor Tina

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